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The Bride and Groom Held Two African Ceremonies—And a Sunny Sunday Wedding—In the Arizona Desert
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Brianna Agyemang and Ermias Tessema were first introduced by a friend—but not romantically. “Erm was looking to apply to a job at a company I used to work for and took me to brunch in exchange for me giving him some background on the company,” shares Brianna, who is an entrepreneur and professor at NYU in Los Angeles. While the meeting was friendly, the two didn’t reconnect until the same mutual friend’s engagement party six months later in late 2019. “We chatted it up a bit—then ultimately I went home, and Erm went out to the after-party. The next morning, Erm sent me a text saying, ‘You’re the hardest person to hang out with.’ I replied, ‘I’m available tonight.’” She adds, “And the rest is history.”

Ermias—who leads finance at Michael B. Jordan’s agency Obsidianworks Creative and co-owns a bicoastal kickball league—came up with a thoughtful way to surprise Brianna with a proposal on August 17, 2024, at Prospect Park in Brooklyn, just a few blocks from her childhood home. The two were visiting from Los Angeles, while Ermias’s parents were visiting from Ethiopia. They all had plans for a “dinner” that night, but Ermias’s brother texted them to stop by Prospect Park on the way. Ermias remembers, “I was really nervous because as we were on the way, it started to lightly rain and luckily I grabbed an umbrella because the show must go on! I walked her through the park, under the tunnel where a dance party was randomly happening and past the trees to the pond.”

Once they arrived atop a bridge over the pond, Ermias began a heartfelt speech about how incredible their years together had been. Then, he showed her a lock on the bridge inscribed with the date, their initials, and an infinity symbol in his handwriting that Brianna’s friend had placed earlier in the day. At that point, Brianna recognized what was happening. “She slowly turned around in tears and saw me on bended knee. I made sure to give her a minute to come back to Earth and her body—it is a lot for the one being proposed to,” says Ermias. “I asked her to marry me, and of course, she said yes.” He then had Brianna look towards the Prospect Park Boathouse, where both sides of their families were waving and cheering. After a brief reunion, the newly engaged pair took a car together to the restaurant where they had celebrated their going-away party three years earlier. “I walked her into another surprise—a 100-plus crew of our family, friends, and close loved ones yelling ‘congratulations’ and ready to dance the night away with us,” Ermias shares. “That weekend was the lightest I have ever felt in my life; weightless. It was truly special.”

The pair decided to exchange vows on Sunday, January 18, 2026, at Desert View in Apache Junction, Arizona. The modern venue in the middle of the desert featured panoramic views of the Superstition Mountains both indoors and out. “Arizona is where we took our first trip together in March 2020, a week before the COVID shutdown, so it made sense that we would go back there for our wedding,” shares Brianna. Brianna led the charge on planning with help from Ermias and coordinator Alayna Landrey of Kristi Marie Events. Looking back on the process, Brianna says there were “a lot of decks,” but it wasn’t as bad as she expected it would be.

Ahead of their big day, the couple would also have two traditional African ceremonies as a nod to their roots in August 2025. “We spent a weekend on the East Coast doing our traditional Ghanaian ayefro in New Jersey and Ethiopian melse in Philly,” explains Brianna. “Each ceremony had its own dedicated day filled with cultural traditions, processes, gifts, clothing, food, family, friends, and music. We wanted to honor our parents by doing these ceremonies, and they were able to invite all of their friends to these.” The couple got started early to book out their venue and other major vendors for the Arizona wedding so they could pivot and dedicate time to planning these events. The last few months were spent executing the rest of their ideas to make their dream wedding come to life.

Brianna spotted her wedding dress designer, Ellie Misner, on Instagram before they even booked the venue. “I loved how she highlighted women’s bodies, and there was a vintage, yet modern and clean vibe from her that I really loved,” describes the bride. Since Misner is based in London, she would have to venture across the pond for a custom dress appointment. Brianna decided to plan a vacation to visit her sister in Amsterdam and tie in a short day trip to visit her studio. “Since I knew I probably only had one time to meet with Ellie, I did a lot of online research and tried on at shops in LA to make sure the styles and shapes I thought I liked in theory actually looked good on me in real life,” says Brianna. “The vibe at the fitting confirmed to me that I made the right decision and she was going to kill it!” Misner sketched out a strapless, corseted style, chose fabrics and color, and took the bride’s measurements to begin the process. Adds Brianna, “A few months later, my dress was ready,” and two friends helped her deliver the final product back to her in Los Angeles.

To accessorize, Brianna wanted to find a pair of metallic shoes she could wear the entire night. “I landed on a pair of silver Jimmy Choo Bing 100 mules that were way more comfortable than they sound and I loved them so much,” she says. Finding the right earrings for the look proved to be a little more tricky—but on the week of the wedding, Brianna walked into the Swarovski store while doing last-minute errands at the mall with Ermias. “They had these beautiful dangly earrings with multiple green stones,” describes Brianna. Since her engagement ring was an emerald, she loved the idea of wearing green elsewhere. “Erm walked into the store as I tried them on but he made me think he didn’t like them,” she says. “But, he actually tricked me so he could later go back and buy them for me as a gift.”

For beauty, the bride wanted to stick true to her style. “My friend Dawn, the Hair Nutritionist, has been doing my hair for over a decade and to be honest I couldn’t imagine anyone else doing my hair on such a special day,” she shares. Brianna has always loved fun, colorful makeup, so she wanted to do something nontraditional for her look. “I actually used to wear glitter eyeshadow and colored eyeliner before Euphoria came out,” she jokes. “Doing a ton of IG and TikTok research, I came across the page of Cassandra aka Facegod and her makeup was unlike anything I had ever seen. I did a trial with her when we were in town for some wedding planning and I was sold.”

Ermias turned to his favorite business and style icon Pharrell when looking for his own wedding style. “I was inspired by Pharrell’s tux he wore at the historical Vatican performance and me and Bri agreed that was the look,” he shares. “I reached out to a friend of mine, Ini Ikpe, who is a stylist to athletes and celebrities to ask for advice on how to get that look made. He surprised me by graciously offering to style me for the wedding free of charge.” He adds, “What a guy!” Ikpe had Ermias work with Ayodeji at King & Maker Tailor to craft the ensmeble. “A couple of weeks later, my Skateboard P-inspired tux was delivered and the rest…well, take a look yourself!”

Since the couple would have large wedding parties featuring their closest circle, they also needed to find them ensembles to wear to the celebration. Both parties kept it chic in black and white. The bridesmaid chose black and white dresses from Because of Alice and black blazers from Naked Wardrobe, while the groomsmen wore peak-lapel tuxedos from The Black Tux. “Simple. Elegant. Timeless,” notes Ermias.

With the wedding on a Sunday, the weekend was filled with events leading up to the ceremony. The couple held an intimate rehearsal dinner, a bridal shower, a welcome party, and even pre-wedding yoga with a beautiful mountain backdrop. The wedding day arrived and the couple was excited to see it was a beautiful 75-degree day. “Before I walked down the aisle I was nervous, but just before they opened the doors I saw a butterfly and felt a sense of calm,” remembers Brianna. The bride and groom each walked down the aisle as their friend, harpist Madison Calley, played. “Our friends and family in the audience cheered and applauded, really setting the tone,” says Brianna. Ermias remembers that when she began down the aisle, “the sun rays from the door were creating a heavenly path in the center aisle for her to to walk down.” The bride’s aunt Jennifer Effah officiated the ceremony and the couple exchanged personal vows they wrote earlier that day. “Luckily my best man had secretly slid my handkerchief into my tux pocket because I was weeping,” says Ermias of reciting his vows. After the ceremony, the couple was ready to have fun. “I was giddy, excited, and ready to rock and roll,” says the bride.

After the ceremony, the newlyweds signed their marriage license and took portraits with their photographer, Liz Rudman. “The wedding attendees enjoyed cocktail hour and all went down into the desert area to take photos by the beautiful cacti that were on the venue grounds and near our photo backdrop,” says Brianna. Then, it was time for the reception, which the couple tasked Ermias’s cousin Menelik with MC-ing. “But we may have underestimated his hosting abilities because he was even better than we expected,” says Brianna. “Before we even got into the reception building, we heard all of the laughter and cheering—it was like being at a filming of SNL.”

The couple did entrances with their wedding parties and the night began to flow. “Our goal for the reception was to be able to maximize partying time, so that we did,” says the bride. Guests enjoyed Ghanaian and Ethiopian dishes, as the three best men and maids of honor gave speeches. Then, the bride and groom did dances with their mothers, their first dance to “Her” by Majid Jordan, and choreographed dances with their wedding parties. The floor opened up to all guests for the rest of the night as DJ Yonas Michael spinned the perfect partying soundtrack.

The celebrations didn’t stop until long after the actual wedding ended. “I think it was 3 a.m. and we were heading back from the club and some folks wanted to do something else,” remembers Ermias. “My response: I can’t ask God for more from this day. It would be gluttonous. Just the perfect day.” Adds Brianna, “Literally, it was the best day of our lives.”

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    We did the Ghanaian-Akan ceremony on the first day of the weekend.

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    This is one of my favorite photos of my aunts and uncles. —Brianna

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    My uncle asked me three times if I wanted my family to accept the gifts that Erm had brought in exchange for my hand in marriage—which is a part of the traditional ceremony. —Brianna

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    I’ve always loved how colorful kente cloth is. —Brianna

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    That’s my man. —Brianna

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    This was our second look with a different kente cloth.

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    It was so hot this day, but we still had soooo much fun. —Brianna

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    On the second day of the African wedding weekend, we did the Ethiopian melse.

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    I really enjoyed how different the traditions of Ethiopia and Ghana were. From the process to the clothes to the music to the foods, there was literally no overlap. —Brianna

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    The red roses were a classic, romantic touch to a traditional picture-perfect moment.

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    Kabas are regal overcoats that get placed on the bride and groom during the traditional Ethiopian ceremony. —Erm

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    The Superstition Mountains were the best backdrop we could ask for.

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    Topicals eye patches and blanco tequila. Wellness and libations. Balance. —Erm

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    Channeling our inner Reservoir Dogs. —Erm

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    I really wanted getting-ready outfits that the ladies could and would wear again and that weren’t super “wedding branded.” So, I sent over the idea to my mom and she reached out to her seamstress in Ghana to have these boubous made. I can’t get over how gorgeous everyone looks. —Brianna

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    I loved all the little details that Ellie Misner put in my dress. —Brianna

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    It takes a village to get a girl in a corset dress. —Brianna

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    My mom actually added all of the beads to the trim of my veil by hand! She’s beautiful and talented. —Brianna

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    This moment felt like an out-of-body experience. We were all dressed and ready; my closest girlfriends, my mom, grandmother, sister, aunt, and niece altogether. —Brianna

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    This day was literally the best. —Brianna

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    The bridal party ladies weren’t playing. —Brianna

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    Our friend Luther made the drawing of the Superstition Mountains from the POV of the venue and it became our wedding logo.

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    The bridesmaids and I tied those ribbons on all of the programs the night before. —Brianna

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    We were super-grateful for my friend from college Madison making the time to come to play at our wedding! Two weeks later, she performed at the Grammys alongside Lauryn Hill. —Brianna

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    Our dress code was “creative black tie” and our guests showed up and out!

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    The moment before Brianna came down the aisle. I was filled with so much emotion. —Erm

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    And the emotions swelled right on out. Luckily my best men snuck a handkerchief in my suit coat earlier on. Grateful for my guys.

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    This was my golden view. The moment the doors opened for her, a walking path of sun rays traced a path for her to me. God was all around this union. —Erm

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    My not-so-little, little brother walked me down the aisle and it was perfect. —Brianna

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    The desert sun, mountains, God, and our favorite people in the world in one place.

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    Just swelling with emotion and love. —Erm

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    I actually finished writing my vows 10 minutes before walking in. They flowed perfectly as it was inspired by everything from that weekend. I am so happy with the words and how they were received. —Erm

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    My three best men: my older brother Mike, younger brother Ash, and best friend, Jones. —Erm

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    My aunt, who was our officiant, smiled as I read my vows to Erm. I also wrote my vows earlier in the day. The words also flowed to me seamlessly. —Brianna

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    We both were so eager to kiss each other right before this picture, we even jumped and swayed a bit and the crowd got a kick out of it. —Erm

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    As we walked down the aisle together, we were really intentional about actively looking at and taking in everyone who was there. —Brianna

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    All smiles. Ear to ear.

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    A more intimate kiss. A lifetime of them waiting ahead of us.

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    Me and one of my MOH’s Kiki with my nephew in the background. —Brianna

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    Making things really really official.

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    Signed. Sealed. Delivered. I’m yours. —Erm

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    So many of our friends are amazing photographers so they jumped to do what they do best!

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    Showing off our new hardware. —Brianna

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    This copy was Erm’s idea! —Brianna

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    We loved that everyone did exactly what we hoped they would do and started roaming the desert at cocktail hour. —Brianna

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    It’s all in the details.

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    Dapper!

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    Everyone got their Vogue on in front of the backdrop.

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    My dear mother. She is the reason I am everything I am. —Erm

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    “I got a really big team, and they need some really nice rings.”

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    My wife! —Erm

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    My husssssbanndddd. —Brianna

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    The mixtape cover.

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    This is a photo our grandkids will see and say, “Wow.” (We hope.) —Erm

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    Everyone got their Vogue on in front of the backdrop. Including us!

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    I can look at this view all day. —Brianna

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    A lot of people loved that we had the framed childhood photos at the entrance. It really was a surprise hit. —Erm

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    People were ready to party.

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    The groomsmen made a last-minute entrance song change in the dressing room. Elite audible! —Erm

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    The bridesmaids surprised everyone with props for their entrance! —Brianna

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    This is when the wedding party welcomed us onto the dance floor.

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    You know we had to get down, too. —Brianna

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    Cue Beyonce. You know what song. —Brianna

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    Lots of jokes at Erm’s expense in the speeches. Clearly, they landed. —Erm

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    My sister gave a Real Housewives–esque speech with receipts and all! —Brianna

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    So grateful.

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    Highlighted my Ethiopian culture with one of my mother’s favorite traditional songs. —Erm

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    My mom chose one of her favorite Ghanaian high-life artists for us to dance to. —Brianna

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    We did our first dance to “Her” by Majid Jordan. We actually met the artists when we first moved to LA and I told them that this song would be our wedding song. Four years later…. A man that keeps his word! —Erm

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    Alexa play “Shake Ah” by Tyla. —Brianna

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    Siri play “Digital Dash” by Future and Drake. —Erm

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    We didn’t even get to try the cake! —Erm

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    But we looked cute cutting it! —Brianna

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    Our DJ took us on a musical journey across Philly, NYC, DMV, and—in this shot—LA.

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    The vibes were on a million.

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    The energy was palpable. Look at these faces. —Erm

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    We partied ALL night.

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    Me and my three MOH’s—my sister Abena and my friends Ayanna and Kiki. I love this photo because it reminds me of the muses from Hercules. —Brianna

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    The late-night pizza was so so good!

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    Cheers to Ermianna!

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Shelby Wax is the Contributing Weddings Editor at Vogue. She previously held roles as Senior Editor at Brides and Editor at Lonny Magazine. Her work has also been featured in publications including Allure, The Hollywood Reporter, Martha Stewart Weddings, The Knot, Time, and Business of Home. A graduate of Scripps College, the California native loves writing ... Read More