Large Language Models (LLMs) unlearning is crucial for removing hazardous or privacy-leaking information from the model. Practical LLM unlearning demands satisfying multiple challenging objectives simultaneously: removing undesirable knowledge, preserving general utility, avoiding over-refusal of neighboring concepts, and, crucially, ensuring robustness against adversarial probing attacks. However, existing unlearning methods primarily focus on a limited subset of these goals, typically unlearning efficacy and utility preservation while overlooking robustness and boundary behaviors. Naively extending these methods to multi-objective settings may lead to unlearning task interference. We propose a novel multi-objective unlearning framework that harmonizes multiple unlearning objectives through a data and optimization co-design: We standardize training corpora into a unified data representation to reduce the domain gap, and then introduce a bidirectional distillation method that simultaneously elicits desired behavior from a context-instructed teacher while suppressing undesirable behavior in the student model. Theoretical and empirical analyses show that our method aligns domain distributions and converts seemingly irrelevant unlearning tasks into cooperative optimization. Evaluation demonstrates state-of-the-art performance, which enables balanced and reliable unlearning across diverse, challenging requirements.