2D assembly diagrams are often abstract and hard to follow, creating a need for intelligent assistants that can monitor progress, detect errors, and provide step-by-step guidance. In mixed reality settings, such systems must recognize completed and ongoing steps from the camera feed and align them with the diagram instructions. Vision Language Models (VLMs) show promise for this task, but face a depiction gap because assembly diagrams and video frames share few visual features. To systematically assess this gap, we construct IKEA-Bench, a benchmark of 1,623 questions across 6 task types on 29 IKEA furniture products, and evaluate 19 VLMs (2B-38B) under three alignment strategies. Our key findings: (1) assembly instruction understanding is recoverable via text, but text simultaneously degrades diagram-to-video alignment; (2) architecture family predicts alignment accuracy more strongly than parameter count; (3) video understanding remains a hard bottleneck unaffected by strategy. A three-level mechanistic analysis further reveals that diagrams and video occupy disjoint ViT subspaces, and that adding text shifts models from visual to text-driven reasoning. These results identify visual encoding as the primary target for improving cross-depiction robustness. Project page: https://ryenhails.github.io/IKEA-Bench/