Millimeter-wave (mmWave) radar has shown great potential for contactless, privacy-preserving, and robust human sensing, yet existing mmWave-based human mesh reconstruction (HMR) studies are still limited by the lack of benchmarks for generalization analysis under configuration shifts and fair comparison of different algorithms. To address the limitation, we present DGHMesh, a large-scale dual-radar mmWave dataset and generalization-focused benchmark for HMR. It contains data from 15 subjects performing 8 actions, with 360,000 synchronized frames collected from FMCW radar, SFCW radar, RGB images, and high-precision 3D HMR annotations. In addition, the dataset provides synchronized raw I/Q data from both radar modalities and accurately calibrated radar spatial positions. The benchmark is designed to evaluate HMR methods under diverse measurement configurations, including human position shifts, human orientation shifts, subarray size variations, and cross-subject settings. Based on DGHMesh, we also propose mmPTM, a query-based multi-radar fusion framework that jointly exploits point clouds and imaging tubes for HMR. Extensive experiments are conducted against representative baselines under different settings. The results demonstrate that mmPTM consistently achieves outstanding accuracy and competitive generalization capability across multiple sub-benchmarks, validating the effectiveness of multi-radar fusion and the practical value of the proposed dataset and benchmark for mmWave-based HMR research. DGHMesh and mmPTM are publicly available at https://github.com/SPIresearch/DGHMesh.(The complete benchmark and code will be released after paper publication)