Large vision-language models (LVLMs) have demonstrated strong general multimodal capability and are increasingly deployed in downstream systems. This trend has driven growing interest in LVLM personalization, which aims to enable models to quickly and effectively learn out-of-distribution multimodal concepts to meet user-specific needs. However, many existing methods rely on inference-time training, which reduces efficiency. They also struggle to maintain accuracy in complex multi-image, multi-concept settings. These limitations restrict the broader deployment of LVLM-based systems. Therefore, this paper proposes in-context prompt tuning (ICPT). Specifically, ICPT employs a lightweight projection module capable of operating in complex scenarios to extract fine-grained visual semantics from multiple reference images, seamlessly transforming these features alongside identity-label mappings into continuous prompts. To maximize computational efficiency, this module adaptively determines the prompt length based on the intrinsic visual complexity of each concept. Crucially, to overcome the environmental biases and cross-concept interference prevalent in real-world applications, we introduce two novel geometric regularizations. These constraints refine prompt representations by decoupling key identities from transient environmental states and separating concepts to avoid semantic confusion. Extensive experiments show that ICPT achieves state-of-the-art personalization accuracy across diverse tasks and LVLM backbones.