Federated fine-tuning of Large Language Models faces severe statistical heterogeneity. However, existing model-level defenses often overlook the root cause: intrinsic data distribution mismatches. In this work, we first establish Federated Self-Distillation (FedSD) as a fundamental and potent strategy. By projecting client representations into a smoothed ``model-understanding space,'' FedSD alone serves as a universal booster, demonstrating superior performance over conventional algorithms. Despite its success, we identify a subtle trade-off termed the Rewrite Paradox -- unconstrained self-distillation can inadvertently increase hallucinations and redundancy. To refine this paradigm, we further propose FedSDR (Federated Self-Distillation with Rectification), the ultimate reinforced framework. It augments FedSD with a dual-stream mechanism: a local LoRA-S (Smoothing) branch to implicitly absorb heterogeneity via distilled data, and a parallel global LoRA-R (Rectification) branch anchored to raw data to enforce factual correctness. By selectively aggregating only LoRA-R, FedSDR yields a globally aligned and faithful model. Extensive experiments verify its superior performance.