Inference-time alignment effectively steers large language models (LLMs) by generating multiple candidates from a reference model and selecting among them with an imperfect reward model. However, current strategies face a fundamental dilemma: ``optimistic'' approaches like Best-of-$N$ suffer from reward hacking, while ``pessimistic'' regularized methods often stifle the exploration needed to discover high-quality responses. In this work, we formalize this trade-off through the lens of regret minimization, demonstrating that the optimal strategy depends critically on the tail behavior of the reward distribution. We show theoretically that light-tailed regimes favor optimism to unearth high-quality outliers, whereas heavy-tailed regimes require pessimism to guard against reward mis-calibration in the extremes. Guided by this insight, we introduce Best-of-Tails (BoT), an adaptive inference-time alignment framework that uses Tsallis divergence as a tunable regularizer to provide a finer granularity of interpolation between these extremes. BoT uses the Hill estimator to characterize reward-tail heaviness on a per-prompt basis and dynamically adjusts its selection rule to balance exploration gains against alignment error. Across math, multiple-choice reasoning, and human-preference evaluations, BoT improves alignment performance across a range of reference and reward model configurations relative to fixed-strategy baselines.