Auto-regressive models (ARMs) have established a dominant paradigm in language modeling. However, their strictly sequential sampling paradigm imposes fundamental constraints on both inference efficiency and modeling flexibility. To address these limitations, diffusion-based large language models (dLLMs) have been proposed, offering the potential for parallel sampling and flexible language modeling. Despite these advantages, current dLLMs sampling strategies rely primarily on token level information, which fails to account for global sequence structure and often yields suboptimal results. In this paper, we study the sampling order selection problem from the perspective of log-likelihood maximization. We show that this problem is NP-hard and propose an optimal sampling-rank-based approximation that makes the objective computationally tractable. We further prove that the tractable objective is optimized by sampling tokens in descending order of their attention-matrix column sums. This finding provides a principled justification for attention-guided sampling and offers a theoretically grounded alternative to greedy search. We instantiate this theoretical insight in a new training-free sampling algorithm, termed Attn-Sampler, and further propose dynamic attention thresholding for practical acceleration. Extensive experiments across multiple benchmarks validate the effectiveness of our proposed method, demonstrating that it achieves superior generation quality while enhancing the sampling parallelism.