Recent work has explored the use of large language models (LLMs) to generate tutoring responses in mathematics, yet it remains unclear how closely their instructional behavior aligns with expert human practice. We analyze a dataset of math remediation dialogues in which expert tutors, novice tutors, and seven LLMs of varying sizes, comprising both open-weight and commercial models, respond to the same student errors. We examine instructional strategies and linguistic characteristics of tutoring responses, including uptake (restating and revoicing), pressing for accuracy and reasoning, lexical diversity, readability, politeness, and agency. We find that expert tutors produce higher-quality responses than novices, and that larger LLMs generally receive higher pedagogical quality ratings than smaller models, approaching expert performance on average. However, LLMs exhibit systematic differences in their instructional profiles: they underuse discursive strategies characteristic of expert tutors while generating longer, more lexically diverse, and more polite responses. Regression analyses show that pressing for accuracy and reasoning, restating and revoicing, and lexical diversity, are positively associated with perceived pedagogical quality, whereas higher levels of agentic and polite language are negatively associated. These findings highlight the importance of analyzing instructional strategies and linguistic characteristics when evaluating tutoring responses across human tutors and intelligent tutoring systems.