An exit is not a finish line. It’s a transition.
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For years, people asked me, “Thad, when are you going to sell your business?”
It’s a presumptive question, and one I never loved. Not every owner is building with the intention of exiting. There’s something deeply meaningful about holding a company for the long haul, passing it on to the next generation, or transitioning it to a group of employees who helped build it alongside you.
Still, many founders do sell. I did. And I’ll be honest, there was a part of me that expected the exit to feel like the final chapter, the moment where everything culminates, and you tie a bow on the story.
After all the years of risk, pressure, decision-making, and sacrifice, you imagine a sense of closure—and there is some of that. There’s even a bit of disbelief that you’ve reached a milestone that, at one point, felt very far away. But what surprised me was how quickly that sense of finality faded.
What I didn’t fully appreciate at the time is that selling a business doesn’t end your story; it changes it. Almost overnight, the structure that had defined your days, your responsibilities, and, in many ways, your identity is gone or significantly altered.
The scoreboard disappears, and in its place is a different kind of question: what now? That’s where the real transition begins, not financial, but personal. It’s a new chapter, one that requires just as much intentionality as building the business did, only this time, the path isn’t as clearly defined.
The first weeks after stepping away were pleasant in ways I didn’t anticipate. My mornings were easier, and I wasn’t bolting out the door at 7 a.m. for a full day of meetings. If you’ve been in high-performance mode for decades, that kind of quiet feels like a luxury!
Then the other side showed up.
I missed the excitement, the challenge, and the intellectual stimulation of building alongside a capable team. I missed solving problems. And there were more than a few moments where I caught myself thinking, “Now what?”
That feeling can be disorienting, especially for entrepreneurs. Many of us have tied a lot of our identity to our professional lives. When that structure changes overnight, it can leave a real void. Research on retirement and purpose notes that when the roles, goals, and structure of work fall away, some people feel unmoored.
So what should you do?
Here’s the best advice I can offer: retire into something, not away from everything.
I’m not saying everyone needs to start another company. Some people love retirement. They play golf, volunteer, travel, or finally pick up the hobbies that got postponed for 30 years. That’s great. But doing nothing, and drifting, waiting for inspiration to strike, can be a trap.
In my own case, I discovered pretty quickly that I still had energy that needed a channel. That’s part of why I’m running for local political office, and it’s also why I’m working to start another business.
If you’re looking for your own “something,” start with a simple question: what kind of challenge do you actually enjoy? Not what looks impressive. Not what your friends expect. What genuinely pulls you in?
On one hand, don’t rush. If you’ve just had a life-changing liquidity event, there’s a lot to digest—financially and emotionally. You don’t need to sprint into the next thing out of panic.
On the other hand, don’t ignore the signal if you feel off-kilter. Many founders experience a period when the calendar suddenly opens up, the phone stops ringing as much, and the adrenaline fades. If that creates restlessness or a low-grade sadness, recognize this is a sign that you thrive on meaningful work.
One practical approach is to give yourself a short season of experiments. Say yes to a board role, a mentoring commitment, or a small advisory project. Pick one hobby that has nothing to do with business. Then watch what gives you energy rather than what simply fills time.
Another surprise many founders don’t anticipate is that after they pull back, people find out!
All of a sudden, you’re getting asked to support a lot of causes. What my wife, Renee, and I have tried to do is build a giving plan: pick a few areas that truly matter to us, focus our bigger support there, and still try to help at a modest level when someone reaches out. But having a plan helps us be good stewards.
Some people formalize that plan with tools like donor-advised funds, which the IRS defines as charitable accounts housed at a public charity that a donor can advise over time. The structure you choose is personal, and you should get proper tax and legal advice, but the principle is universal. Decide what your “yes” means before the requests start piling up.
An exit is not a finish line. It’s a transition.
If you approach it with the same intentionality you brought to building your company, you can build a second chapter that feels every bit as meaningful as the first.
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